I mean, technically we got married at the Seattle Municipal Courthouse in November of 2018, but we celebrated our marriage with the most incredible ceremony in Menorca, Spain this summer. July 31, 2019 will always be one of my favorite days because it is filled with my most cherished memories.

We’ve never been a traditional couple, so we decided to do things our own way. We had nine guests and no officiant. Our ceremony took place on a cliffside. No reception. No bridesmaids or groomsmen. Just us, our immediate family, and a whole lot of love.
I’ve been hesitant to share the story of our wedding day because it is so personal and special, but I hope to inspire others to do exactly what they want on their special day. Planning a huge wedding sounded stressful and it didn’t feel like us. We wanted our day to represent who we are as a couple – what we love most about each other, our families, and the world around us.
Our love of travel and my Spanish heritage played a big part in choosing our ceremony location. We are both avid outdoor enthusiasts and world travelers, so getting married in a place so near and dear to my heart, my family’s home country, meant a great deal to me. We chose our cliffside location based on the beautiful yet rugged landscape, and the promise of a beautiful sunset over the Mediterranean Sea.
We started our day, however, on the opposite coast for a sunrise photoshoot. Since we had our photographer the whole day, but didn’t need photos of hair and makeup and bridesmaids and groomsmen, we decided to do a sunrise shoot, take a siesta midday, and then head out for our ceremony in the evening.
The sunrise photos turned out amazingly. Our photographer did an incredible job capturing the beautiful scenery around us while also capturing our love. It was the perfect way to start our special day.

We took our siesta, I got my hair and makeup done, we got dressed together, and then we were off! (Side note: I have had so many people tell me how insane it is that my husband saw me in my wedding dress before the actual wedding. News flash: his opinion is the most important to me, so of course I would show him the dress! Getting ready together was so special in it’s own way, and I know most couples don’t experience that.)
Once we arrived at our location, a popular cliffside spot called Pont d’en Gil, we were greeted by crowds of people who had come out to watch the sunset. Thankfully we had scoped out our site beforehand, so we had a quiet spot all to ourselves.
Since we were self-officiating, we decided to create a ceremony that spoke to our hearts and our lives together, while also including our family members in a special way. We chose to do a handfasting ceremony, which is a “Celtic tradition in which the couple has their hands tied together with a braid or something similar. Knots are often tied in the braid at the making of each vow.” Being untraditional, we decided to make our own version of handfasting, in which each of our family members would say something special while tying a handmade braid around our hands – basically their vows to us. It was beautiful and emotional (I don’t think I stopped crying the entire time).

Of course, we prepared our own vows to each other. When we removed all the braids from our hands, feeling full of love from our families, we spoke words of dedication and growth. We exchanged rings and asked our families to pronounce us husband and wife. We kissed. There was cheering, applause, laughter. We popped the champagne and went to dinner, and that was that!

The next day we departed Menorca to go on our honeymoon in Slovenia (which was amazing by the way!). But more to come on that later. For now, I hope your hearts are as full as mine.
Sending love your way,
Cristina
P.S. If you want to see more gorgeous photos from our wedding day, you can see them here. All photos taken in Menorca by F2Studio.






























